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Are You Wallflower

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Danielle Fletcher
• Tuesday, 22 December, 2020
• 7 min read

People who are socially awkward and don’t have any friends at all. In fact, you probably enjoy it more than being with your friends or boyfriend.

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You can sit silently by the window, watch the raindrops roll down the window pane and be completely satisfied with your day. When your roommate or boyfriend comes home and asks you what you’ve done all day, you casually say nothing special.

You can’t sit in class without thinking about a cool name to name your cat. You wander off in your mind even when people are talking to you.

You may be thinking about the most mundane thing in the world, like how zero is the only number that isn’t represented in Roman numerals. Maybe you’re not thinking about anything at all but you simply don’t care that much about what the other person is saying.

Before you know it, you’ve missed the point of the entire conversation, after which you can only nod alone and smile, friendly. Maybe your closet doesn’t completely consist of black pieces, but you generally only wear dark or neutral colors.

Basically any color in a muted tone. Occasionally you nod your head to your friends and smile and say something like ‘hey this is fun’.

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But as soon as they’re getting drinks, you make your way to the corner of the room where you’ll disappear for the rest of the night. You can stand in the elevator with your neighbor and ride all the way to your floor in silence.

Occasionally you’ll think about something funny in the elevator, like hugging your neighbor and saying ‘this was fun’ and you’ll laugh about it. Especially when you stare at people without saying a thing (which you are best at, hands down).

That is, not to say that only wallflowers are awesome people (I mean, most of us are), but meaning that while some people may fail to see your value in the world, you, in the meantime, are painting Picasso-like paintings in your bedroom and composing one piano sonata after the other. After all, you are what the Latin proverb still waters run deep is about.

If you've read the book or seen the movie you probably know what a Wallflower is, if not it'll be in your result. You notice that one of the major themes is that of rejection…a rejection of new travels into the unknown.

You realize that you have been making decisions out of fear and choosing to stay within the sphere of familiarity. When offered new opportunities to step out of your comfort zone, you chose to not take the big leaps.

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You are constantly saying “No” to life, which shuts you out of cultivating and actualizing your incredible capabilities as a human being. If you always choose to “play it safe” you will never achieve anything bold in life.

You will never leave a lasting positive imprint on humanity….because you lacked the courage to take a chance. If you want to live a rich life that helps you and others around you, there will have to be some courage involved.

There is an entire sea of possibilities and opportunities that lies in front of you. Imagine what the world would look like if all the great inventions and discoveries that we benefit from today never occurred.

Our bold and the courageous ancestors decided to take new paths, sometimes literally, in the hopes that they would lead them to a better future. We, too, can walk confidently into the future present in the hope of that journey leading to something better for us and others.

They don’t allow the negative self-talk or naysayers stop them from achieving and accomplishing something. Paul Linda is the founder & director of SHIFT>, a conscious evolution guide, author of The Creation of a Consciousness Shift, intentional evolutionary & celebrator of life working to provide an integral role in the positive social transformation of humanity.

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You notice that one of the major themes is that of rejection…a rejection of new travels into the unknown. You realize that you have been making decisions out of fear and choosing to stay within the sphere of familiarity.

When offered new opportunities to step out of your comfort zone, you chose to not take the big leaps. You are constantly saying “No” to life, which shuts you out of cultivating and actualizing your incredible capabilities as a human being.

If you always choose to “play it safe” you will never achieve anything bold in life. You will never leave a lasting positive imprint on humanity….because you lacked the courage to take a chance.

If you want to live a rich life that helps you and others around you, there will have to be some courage involved. There is an entire sea of possibilities and opportunities that lies in front of you.

Imagine what the world would look like if all the great inventions and discoveries that we benefit from today never occurred. Our bold and the courageous ancestors decided to take new paths, sometimes literally, in the hopes that they would lead them to a better future.

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We, too, can walk confidently into the future present in the hope of that journey leading to something better for us and others. They don’t allow the negative self-talk or naysayers stop them from achieving and accomplishing something.

Paul Linda is a conscious evolution guide, founder & director of SHIFT, author, writer, speaker, meditation teacher, life coach, and ambassador for the New Paradigm wishing to provide an integral role in personal transformation and the collective social transformation of humanity. Paul offers private one-on-one holistic life counseling & conscious evolution sessions, via Skype or phone.

Paul takes into account all aspects of the hyperdimensional matrix when providing guidance, counseling, and coaching. If so, please consider a donation to help the evolution of Wake-Up World and show your support for alternative media.

It's Friday night, what are your plans? You are a Wallflower and very shy and quiet, but you are devoted, and you love your friends.

You get lost in life sometimes, but you love having a good time A wallflower is a person who is introverted and is separate from the crowd, usually at a party.

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Not particularly shy but are reserved when surrounded by a lot of people and big personalities. They choose to stand back rather than getting involved as they prefer to observe.

Get the Schrödinger's Douchebag neck gaiter and mug. Someone who could be called shy, someone who doesn't feel comfortable around other people.

They may act fake around their friends to hide their real quiet personality, but to everyone else, they're invisible. They can be the best people, if you take the time to crack their thick shell.

The opposite sex doesn't seem to consider them very much, but if you got to know them, they'd be great. Someone, usually a teenager who observes other people and how they interact.

So he, she or they would stand on the sidelines, observe others, but are too afraid to let their awkwardness show. They are usually considered loners but are actually mostly shy or introverts.

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Someone who is quiet, not anti-social and friends do not come easy. A wallflower is attractive to guys, but usually a turn off to girls.

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